Albert Einstein said it well
When I was growing up we were members of the “World Wide Church of God” in Pasadena it was a the sky is falling church and only the chosen will make it when they hear the trumpets, because only Gods people will go when the world is destroyed..or my favorite taught in Sunday school black people are from the tribe of Ham and that is why they are cursed and have bad hair..being the only black child in the Sunday school everyone turned to look at my puffy poms on the side of my head. As a young child I agreed that having to comb through my shoulder length hair was indeed a curse. Pressing combs were instruments of the devil can you imagine putting a hot comb on a fire until it smokes and then burning the hair until it wilts, laying flat like a dead flower. Being that I was tender headed I moved when ever the comb moved, this is dangerous when you have burning metal close to facial skin. Hey the pain and agony of change , regardless that struggle is the instrument to growth, expansion and achievement. It took me 20 years to look in the mirror and know that my strong soft springy curls are beautiful. That what I have is a blessing, embrace it, enjoy it nourish it.
As in most life experiences shared among people, we usually find that what we think is bad, sometimes ends up being what we needed, even though it may have not been what we thought we wanted at first.
Thought always manifests itself into tangible form, so always find the good in every challenge, situation, person etc; Rise above what you perceive to be a problem, finding solutions can be as easy as flipping it around and seeing the problem as the actual solution, you never knew you were looking for.